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Crip Etiquette

I’m in Albuquerque for a mission operations rehearsal.

I’ve got about an hour and a half before I go on duty, so I go to the Starbucks near the base, get myself a latte, and settle down in an armchair to read for a little while.

In a bit I look up and see two women, one pushing the other in a wheelchair. It’s a tight location – because there was no room next to the armchair, I left my chair in front of me. Next to that is a table. I look in the other direction and there’s an exit, so maybe that’s where they’re trying to go. “Am I in your way?” I ask.

“Yes,” pusher-woman says.

So I untangle my crossed legs, put on my shoes, pop into my chair, then turn to face them, expecting that they will back up so I can get out of their way then return back to my seat. They just stare at me. “Where are you trying to go?”

“She wants to sit there,” pusher-woman says, pointing at the armchair I have just vacated. What the hell? So I grab my mug and my book. “Back up so I can get out,” I say. Pusher-woman is not very quick on the uptake, trying to move tables and chairs, but eventually she backs up enough so I can get past. I get in my car and go to work half an hour early. I was halfway to the car before I realized what had happened. No snappy comebacks.

Katja

8 Comments

  1. wheelchairdancer

    what? no, really. what? incredible!

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  2. Disgruntled Ladye

    Whisky Tango Foxtrot???
    Have these people never heard of common courtesy?

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  3. Book Girl

    Some situations are just so weird and unexpected that there are no snappy comebacks for them. Unfortunately. ;-(

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  4. Timmargh

    That’s terrible.

    Unfortunately my own mother can be a bit like that, i.e. “my son’s disabled and therefore the most important person here” — she cuts across people in the street when she’s pushing my chair. Well, she used to until I insisted on hiring a scooter each time we go shopping …

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  5. kellie

    O.o

    That’s just… wow. Talk about a titanium set!

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  6. yasmín

    Um, that’s just bizarre.

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  7. mdmhvonpa

    And this is why some people park in HP spots … not because of this type of behavior, but precisely due to the existence of such thought processes. Yikes.

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  8. Mouse

    Are you sure pusher-woman wasn’t riding a broom!

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